6. Surviving Pain

Jun-10-2011 | Comments (0)

Bird’s Eye: Some readers may well want to skip this section. That’s fair enough… few of us seek more pain in our lives than we already have been given, even by reading about it. But these are true – and inspiring – stories of how people survived horrors that we hope never to face. They are a Reddit forum with amazing stories, in response to a 24 year old dying of pancreatic cancer; a man whose love for his girlfriend helped him survive Syrian torture; and a woman who got a letter from her rapist, apologizing, twenty years later. None are cheery or happy, but all are worth reading for the light that is there.

* IAMA 24 Year Old Who Just Received A Death Sentence Reddit

My father was initially diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2000 or 2001. His doctor gave him six months. He went home, curled up on the couch, and stayed there for two days. On the third day he sat up, announced to his wife “I’m not dead yet” (probably not in the Monty Python voice), and proceeded to play guitar, watch football, and get drunk.

Through several months of treatment and testing, his cancer went into remission, and he lived – happily and healthily – until new tumors were discovered in 2008.

He died early Christmas Day, 2009. Less than a week before his death, he was performing with his band at a local pub – just as he had for all his adult life. He never stopped doing what made him happy, and when he passed he was surrounded by people who loved him, loved being around him, loved the person he was and the person he inspired others to be.

His last words to me were “What are YOU so worried about?” as I helped him back into his hospital bed. He never stopped joking around.

He fought cancer with hope. He didn’t hate what his life had become. He didn’t spew bile about the illness all the time. Yes, he bitched occasionally – he had every right to. Yes, he had days where he was in pain or couldn’t eat. Yes, the treatments were often just as bad, if not worse, than the effects of the cancer itself. None of this mattered to him though. He just enjoyed his life, as much as he possibly could, until his time was up.

He was probably the strongest person I will ever know, and it’s not because he was strong in the face of cancer. It’s because he had the courage to live his life the way he wanted.

* Love In A Time Of Torture Al Jazeera

Arrested during a protest in the first days of the Syrian uprising, a young man endured acts of sadism and torture at the hands of Bashar al-Assad’s secret police. As his body was beaten, whipped, electrocuted and worse; the prisoner could think only of the girl he loves, clenching a note from her in his hand as the torturers did their worst.

Told largely in his own words, this is his remarkable personal story of endurance and hope in a place filled with darkness and despair.

* Dear Rapist… The Guardian

It was late summer 2005 and we were about to set out on an extended vacation with our two-year-old daughter, Ava. “Hey, you got a letter,” said my husband Mike, tossing it to me like a Frisbee. It smelled faintly of vanilla, nice paper. I ripped it open and began to read the very precise, almost feminine cursive script.

Dear Elizabeth:

In October 1984 I harmed you. I can scarcely begin to understand the degree to which, in your eyes, my behaviour has affected you in its wake. Still, I stand prepared to hear from you about just how, and in what ways you’ve been affected; and to begin to set right the wrong I’ve done, in any way you see fit. Most sincerely yours, Will Beebe



4. Torture. What is it Good For?

May-13-2011 | Comments (0)

Bird’s Eye: The scum of the earth Some Republicans are claiming that it was the torture in Guantanamo that enabled the US to catch and kill Bin Laden. McCain calls them on their lies, in a week when 700 files leaked by Wikileaks exposed the moral bankruptcy of the Guantanamo system, and a US prisoner who has spent more than 10,000 days in solitary confinement writes a description of his experience for his appeal. By contrast, we look at penal reforms in Norway.

* John McCain to Bush apologists: Stop lying about Bin Laden and torture The Washington Post

McCain amplified his case, and called on former Bush attorney general Michael Mukasey — whose recent op ed claiming torture led to Bin Laden has been widely cited by the right — to retract his claims. McCain’s speech is worth quoting at length:

“The trail to bin Laden did not begin with a disclosure from Khalid Sheikh Mohammed, who was waterboarded 183 times. We did not first learn from Khalid Sheikh Mohammed the real name of bin Laden’s courier, or his alias, Abu Ahmed al-Kuwaiti — the man who ultimately enabled us to find bin Laden. The first mention of the name Abu Ahmed al-Kuwaiti, as well as a description of him as an important member of Al-Qaeda, came from a detainee held in another country. The United States did not conduct this detainee’s interrogation, nor did we render him to that country for the purpose of interrogation. We did not learn Abu Ahmed’s real name or alias as a result of waterboarding or any ‘enhanced interrogation technique’ used on a detainee in U.S. custody. None of the three detainees who were waterboarded provided Abu Ahmed’s real name, his whereabouts, or an accurate description of his role in Al-Qaeda….

“In short, it was not torture or cruel, inhuman, and degrading treatment of detainees that got us the major leads that ultimately enabled our intelligence community to find Osama bin Laden. I hope former Attorney General Mukasey will correct his misstatement. It’s important that he do so because we are again engaged in this important debate, with much at stake for America’s security and reputation.

* Guantánamo Piled Lie Upon Lie Through The Momentum Of Its Own Existence Julian Glover The Guardian

What is given new prominence by these latest Guantánamo files is the cold, incompetent stupidity of the system: a system that tangled up the old and the young, the sick and the innocent. A system in which to say you were not a terrorist might be taken as evidence of your cunning. A system designed less to hand out justice than to process and supply information from inmates, as if they were not humans but items of digital data in some demented storage machine programmed always to reject the answer “No, I was not involved”. The clinical idiocy of this dreadful place is the most chilling thing of all, since it strips away even the cynical but persuasive defence: it was harsh but it worked and it kept the world safe.

It didn’t work, much of the time. These files show that some of the information collected was garbage and that many of those held knew nothing that could be of use to the people demanding answers from them. Far from securing the fight against terror, the people running the camp faced an absurdist battle to educate a 14-year-old peasant boy kidnapped by an Afghan tribe and treat the dementia, depression and osteoarthritis of an 89-year-old man caught up in a raid on his son’s house.

…Again and again, what stands out from these stories is not some as yet undiscovered horror from the secretive steel-barred and orange-suited compound, but the chaos, the confusion and the casualness of it all.

* American Prisoner Describes 10,220 Days in Extreme Solitary Confinement Solitary Watch

Thomas Silverstein, who has been described as America’s “most isolated man,” has been held in an extreme form of solitary confinement under a “no human contact” order for 28 years. Originally imprisoned for armed robbery at the age of 19, Silverstein is serving life without parole for killing two fellow inmates (whom he says were threatening his life) and a prison guard, and has been buried in the depths of the federal prison system since 1983.

In his current lawsuit against the Federal Bureau of Prisons, Silverstein contends that his decades of utter isolation in a small concrete cell violate the Constitution’s ban on cruel and unusual punishment, as well as its guarantee of due process…. In support of that lawsuit, Tommy Silverstein, now 59, has written a long “declaration,” the purpose of which “is primarily to describe my experience during this lengthy period of solitary confinement: the nature and impact of the harsh conditions I have endured in spite of a spotless conduct record for over 22 years, and my lack of knowledge about what, if anything, I can do to lessen my isolation.” After apologizing “for the actions that brought me here in the first place,” particularly the murder of corrections officer Merle Clutts, Silverstein contends that he has “worked hard to become a different man.” He continues, “I understand that I deserve to be punished for my actions, and I do not expect ever to be released from prison…I just want to serve out the remainder of my time peacefully with other mature guys doing their time.”

* Norway’s controversial ‘cushy prison’ experiment Mail Online

The 120 people who live there never visit the mainland, but then why would they? They spend their days happily winding around the network of paths that snake through the pine forests, or swimming and fishing along the five miles of pebble beaches, or playing on the tennis courts and football pitch; and recuperating later on sunbeds and in a sauna, a cinema room, a band rehearsal room and expansive library.  Their commune has handsomely furnished bungalows with cable TV. The residents eat together in an attractively spacious canteen thoughtfully decorated with Norwegian art. The centrepiece is a striking 10ft long model of a Norwegian merchant ship.

If it sounds like an oddball Scandinavian social experiment, you’d be right. Bastoy is home to Norway’s only island prison….

And yet, an extensive new study undertaken by researchers across all the Nordic countries reveals that the reoffending average across Europe is about 70-75 per cent. In Denmark, Sweden and Finland, the average is 30 per cent. In Norway it is 20 per cent. Thus Bastoy, at just 16 per cent, has the lowest reoffending rate in Europe….







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