Bird’s Eye: Some readers may well want to skip this section. That’s fair enough… few of us seek more pain in our lives than we already have been given, even by reading about it. But these are true – and inspiring – stories of how people survived horrors that we hope never to face. They are a Reddit forum with amazing stories, in response to a 24 year old dying of pancreatic cancer; a man whose love for his girlfriend helped him survive Syrian torture; and a woman who got a letter from her rapist, apologizing, twenty years later. None are cheery or happy, but all are worth reading for the light that is there.
* IAMA 24 Year Old Who Just Received A Death Sentence Reddit
My father was initially diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2000 or 2001. His doctor gave him six months. He went home, curled up on the couch, and stayed there for two days. On the third day he sat up, announced to his wife “I’m not dead yet” (probably not in the Monty Python voice), and proceeded to play guitar, watch football, and get drunk.
Through several months of treatment and testing, his cancer went into remission, and he lived – happily and healthily – until new tumors were discovered in 2008.
He died early Christmas Day, 2009. Less than a week before his death, he was performing with his band at a local pub – just as he had for all his adult life. He never stopped doing what made him happy, and when he passed he was surrounded by people who loved him, loved being around him, loved the person he was and the person he inspired others to be.
His last words to me were “What are YOU so worried about?” as I helped him back into his hospital bed. He never stopped joking around.
He fought cancer with hope. He didn’t hate what his life had become. He didn’t spew bile about the illness all the time. Yes, he bitched occasionally – he had every right to. Yes, he had days where he was in pain or couldn’t eat. Yes, the treatments were often just as bad, if not worse, than the effects of the cancer itself. None of this mattered to him though. He just enjoyed his life, as much as he possibly could, until his time was up.
He was probably the strongest person I will ever know, and it’s not because he was strong in the face of cancer. It’s because he had the courage to live his life the way he wanted.
* Love In A Time Of Torture Al Jazeera
Arrested during a protest in the first days of the Syrian uprising, a young man endured acts of sadism and torture at the hands of Bashar al-Assad’s secret police. As his body was beaten, whipped, electrocuted and worse; the prisoner could think only of the girl he loves, clenching a note from her in his hand as the torturers did their worst.
Told largely in his own words, this is his remarkable personal story of endurance and hope in a place filled with darkness and despair.
* Dear Rapist… The Guardian
It was late summer 2005 and we were about to set out on an extended vacation with our two-year-old daughter, Ava. “Hey, you got a letter,” said my husband Mike, tossing it to me like a Frisbee. It smelled faintly of vanilla, nice paper. I ripped it open and began to read the very precise, almost feminine cursive script.
Dear Elizabeth:
In October 1984 I harmed you. I can scarcely begin to understand the degree to which, in your eyes, my behaviour has affected you in its wake. Still, I stand prepared to hear from you about just how, and in what ways you’ve been affected; and to begin to set right the wrong I’ve done, in any way you see fit. Most sincerely yours, Will Beebe


